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When Something in Sex or Intimacy Feels Stuck
When Something in Sex or Intimacy Feels Stuck Last week on my IG, I shared my thoughts on why change — especially around intimacy and sex — can feel difficult, even when we want it to happen. This week, I want to deepen the conversation by examining how our values can influence what happens in the bedroom and how they may shape the way we move towards change. In coaching and therapy, people may sense that something about their sex life or intimate relationship does not
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Jul 224 min read


Mid-Year Sexual Wellbeing 'Audit': How Have You Been, Really?
During this season, many people reflect on various aspects of life, such as work, finances, productivity, routines, and responsibilities. However, one important area that is often overlooked is sexual wellbeing.
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Jun 252 min read


Sexual Confidence: Beyond Performance, Scripts, and “Shoulds”. Why feeling confident in sex has less to do with technique — and more to do with self-trust
Previously, during a podcast episode on sexual anxiety (sex and breakfast podcast link), my colleague Dr. Norelyn shared a story that resonated with me. She mentioned that some of her clients had turned to ChatGPT and posed a question that many people silently wonder about: What should a real man be like in bed?
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Feb 178 min read


New Podcast : Sex and Breakfast
I recently started contributing to a podcast called Sex and Breakfast. 🎙️ The podcast explores conversations many of us need but rarely...
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May 1, 20251 min read


Finding Freedom From Sexual Shame
Originally published on Genvie. Picture this - you've been dreaming about some sexy scenes with your partner(s) and you’re ready for some action! But your stomach twists into knots and you become tongue-tied, unable to ask for what you want. You end up repeating the same old routine in bed. Or, have you ever had icky feelings when you touch yourself or undress in front of your partner before an intimate moment? You quickly switch the lights off and sneak under the covers. Res
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Oct 19, 20234 min read


How To Get Out Of Your Head During Sex
“Sometimes I think I’m so close to getting it (orgasm), but my mind often gets in the way, and I lose the plot altogether, leaving me...
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Aug 19, 20235 min read


The Power of Finding Clarity Within
By Dian Handayani Like all that sensation of hunger, it is discomforting. And there have been several points in my life where I've found...
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Jun 19, 20232 min read


Is feeling good enough, enough?
Thoughts on perfectionism and how it impacts other areas (self, work, relationship and sexuality) of your life
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Jun 10, 20224 min read


Do I need sex therapy?
Learn about sex therapy. Understand sex therapy (and what it is not) and how a sex therapist can help you with sexual concerns, from painful
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Mar 10, 20224 min read
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